Heleaux Y’all!
Gosh, the weather right now in Louisiana is so nice this time of year. It’s chilly in the monring and as the day goes by it slowly progresses to the lower 80s.
Now that’s what I call Fall, Y’all!
Currently, I’ve been catching up in the blogosphere! I’ve found lots of new blogs, and lots of new people! I’ve been feeling a little left out for a while, but then I realized, ‘Oop hon that’s your fault’.
So in the span of about two weeks, I’ve followed about 20 more or so blogs.
And in that time I’ve realized a bunch of things new bloggers do, and it’s crazy.
Lots of new bloggers tend to adopt the art of spontaneity
Honestly, I love this. It’s so fun and quirky, and I think it’s a great way to express yourself.
But then there are those less desirable quirks. Yeah, you know the ones. Cringe worthy things that make your mouth go sour.
And you know that it’s their decision and their blog but… Maybe just one comment won’t hurt…
Don’t stress it, babe! We could all use these tips! (I might even need them myself…) We should never have to hurt someone’s feelings to help them out! So I’m gonna stop babbling and give you what you should never do as a blogger!
(DISCLAIMER: I am in no way trying to call people out, or be purposely mean. If there is something I said that doesn’t sit well with you, let me know and we can talk it out!)
TMI, Darling.
TMI stands for, tOo MuCh iNfOrMaTIiON!
Honestly, it’s okay to want to give out certain details such as ‘Bert’s Diner is the best! They have amazing Hamburgers!’.
But we really don’t want to know about what you ate for breakfast everyday of the week…. And then maybe how much you hate your siblings, and your favorite show and your favorite episode of that show.
It’s just to much, and a tad overwhelming for the readers! Ask yourself what do your readers want to know, whats new and excieting in your life? Post about that!
It was delish, dear!
I’ve known this forever. Mostly because my older sister complains about this.
Don’t post pictures of your half eaten food.
Just, please, don’t.
Why?
Because it’s a tad gross, and not very slightly. Folks, take a picture of your food BEFORE you eat it.
And that’s all I have to say about that.
This looks familiar, hon.
Most new bloggers I’ve noticed have the same exact blog format.
I don’t know what it’s called, but guys, It’s getting a little old.
Being exclusive in the blogosphere is something everyone struggles with, and tbh I do as well! But whenever you see several other bloggers with the same exact formatting, change your own, and get some help with a design!
Also, another thing I’d like to cover in this category is naming your blog. Chances are, if you are reading this, you probably already have a blog. And you’ve already named it.
But is it a good name? (Honestly guys, I’m second guessing my blog name.)
‘My Life’ ‘Diary’ ‘Book’ ‘Lover’ ‘Girl’ are the keywords you want to avoid. Be diverse and exclusive! If you like your name, keep it! But be warned, it’s still a little cliche.
That’s a lot of posts, sweetheart.
Every new blogger does this. (Well maybe every new blogger under the age of 11)
When you just start blogging and you build up that momentum and you just can’t stop churning out posts.
That’s great and all, but please don’t post them yet! You can schedule them for later, so that way you can have a whole month of blog posts set out without overwhelming your new readers!
And another thing, (Nope we aren’t done with this category yet folks)
Your posts should be over 100 words.
I’m just sayin’.
Never give up, Babe.
Here’s just a reminder for all of you bloggers trying to gain more followers,
Never give up, babe. Blogging is trial and error, and evne when you feel like you’ll never make it to the top or you just aren’t good enough,
the top of the mountain has amazing views, and it’s all down hill from there!
Stop looking at everybody else’s progress and focus on you. What can you do?
Hey you!
Thanks for reading this post, I had lots of fun writing it, and I hope you had fun reading it!
If you have a small annoyance about blogging clichรฉs, no one is stopping you from commenting it, unless it’s super mean, then don’t comment it!
I feel like there’s more I could say, so if you know of anything you’d like to let new bloggers know, feel free to comment down below, and maybe I’ll put them in a post for a part two.
Maybe.
In the meantime, you can share this post for three free fall desktop backgrounds! Just be sure to tell me by emailing me using the contact page!
Until next time,

AWESOME TIPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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TYSM! ๐
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Reblogged this on The Perilous Pen and commented:
This post was super helpful!
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TYSM!
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I love this post!!!! Thank you sooo much!!! ๐
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Thank you and Your Welcome! ๐๐
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Thank you so much for this post! it really helped!
Jacie
thebiglifechange.blogspot.com
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I’m so glad!!
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Wow! These are awesome!! This is one of the best blog posts I’ve read in a while. Keep it up!! (:
Addie xx
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Aweeeeeee tysm!!!!! ๐
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This is so true! A lot of bloggers post once or even twice a day and I’m just like…how am I supposed to keep up with this? And yeah, lots of short posts too. Like, my posts are usually at least 500 words + photos, and just a few sentences is a little boring. I also notice a lot of newbie bloggers make typos and such. But, overall, it’s really fun to find blogs and maybe give them tips and watch them grow.
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Yeah! I decided not to add typos bc that’s something a lot of us struggle with. ๐
Thanks for commenting! โค
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Unfortunately, I’m one of those people who post one or twice, and almost everyday too. I’m going to stop though, because this post helped me!
Thankfully, though, my only short posts are poems, and I can’t really make them that long.
~Rayna
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this is awesome!
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iโll tell you when my blog is done being edited and stuff so you can follow me!๐๐
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Oh cool! Yay!
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did you get my email? ๐ง and your profile pic is so cute! ๐ค๐ป
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Can you send it again? ๐
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Hello!! Ummm okay, can a blog name have *Ramblings* in it?
I’m not gonna change it, just asking ๐
AWESOME TIPS! I ALWAYS LOVE YOUR BLOGGING RELATES POSTS๐คฉ
and sorry for all caps๐
~Evin@ https://evinsblog.wordpress.com/
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Oh,and I shared your post with a few friends with the link. Does that count?
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Yeah! Thanks!
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Sent! ๐โญ
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Tysm!
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No problem!
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Hiiiiii! Amazing tips ๐
Also, why did I never think about scheduling posts for the days I can’t post. Silly me! I just shoot them out on one day. Oof.
~Rayna
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Thanks Ray!
Ahaha! Glad I could help! ๐
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I also added your sign off to your comment after seeing your other comment. ๐
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Hahaha that’s kinda confusing! ๐
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Oh wait I mispelled it whoops!
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Oh oop
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Fixed! Phew okay ๐๐๐
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I wish this computer had emojis. (Although, you should be relieved it doesn’t. I’d spam my replies with thousands of cry-laugh emojis.)
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I use chrome for the emojis, all I have to do is press the right click and it has emoji options. (Hahahaha!!! Yeah I think i’m over using them as well…)
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Huh, didn’t know that was an option (I’m on Chrome too).
Also, of course you are, emojis make everything better. Sounds like something Keefe would say. I think I’m spending too much time rereading the KOTLC books!
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Ohhh cool! Yeah, you should check it out!โญ
Oh my gosh it does!! Phahahaha one time I was legit like, serious as ever in my head assuming someone was with the Neverseen. I was like, ‘I need to take a serious break…’ ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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Hahahahaha (can’t put more, even though I want too hehe)! I’m legit trying not to burst into laughter, because I’m in class right now, and that would mean trouble. Oof!
Also I literally read the books every other day.
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Oh my gosh sorry! I should leave you alone to your class! ๐๐
It’s currently 11:30 where i live!
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Oh, haha, it’s ok, I’m listening to my class. I’m good at multitasking. ALSO, 11:30 PM? Yikes!
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I think I use too many “also”s
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๐๐I finally figured how to use the emojis
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YAY!!! โญโญโญ๐
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Expect a lot of them now XD ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
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Oh my๐
I loved the conversation tone you maintained and the tips are so blunt, useful and honest! I love them!!๐๐
Lovely post!!
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๐ Thanks!!!๐
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I love this! ๐
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Thank you! โค
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This is an awesome post Mary! You are so right ๐ I think I had a few of those things when I had a blog ๐
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Thank you! ๐โญ
When you had a blog? What happened?
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You followed Vrose’s blog, didn’t you? Well, she had one but deleted it๐ฅบ
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heeey girlie!!
Great post and oh my goodness, I probably did a ton of these things when I was first starting out with blogging!! LOL ๐
Loved this!
*hugs
-kaelyn ๐
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These are all awesome tips!! I did just about every single one of these as a new blogger. ๐
Also, I tagged you for the My Favorite Things Tag! You can check it out here: https://esthersnook.wordpress.com/2020/10/15/my-favorite-things-tag/
If you don’t want to do it, there’s absolutely no pressure.
Have a great day!
-Esther
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Iโm a new-ish blogger/fanfic writer, so having these tips is really helpful! TYSM! ๐
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Awee no problem! Haha thanks for commenting!
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These are AMAZING tips Mary!! ๐๐ผ๐๐ผThey are like all honestly so relatable!! ๐I made (or am still making๐) severall of those mistakes!!
But I 100% loved this post hon!!๐คโค
Love, Amy
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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Hi Mary,
Please check the below link and participate!
https://crozwalk.wordpress.com/2020/10/17/the-sunshine-blogger-award/
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Thanks for the tips!
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Aw wow, thanks for these tips!! ๐
I really hate my blog name and I wanna Change it, but I just dunno what to name it ๐. If you have any suggestions, do let me know!!
I found ur site through riddhis link, and I’m glad I did, it’s really helpful!!
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No problem! ๐
I’ll let you know!
Thank you!!!!!
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Hey guys!!! Mary, one of my awesome blogging friends, asked me to repost this on LTBL!! These tips have helped me a lot so hopefully they will help you!!!!
~Lrose5
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Hi!!!!
This is honestly an AWESOME post! I absolutely love it! I’m a newbie blogger and this will probably be my Gospel now!
You got yourself a new follower!!
Lookin’ forward to interacting!
XOX,
THE ONE WHO ALWAYS TALKS
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Great tips! Thanks for sharing โค
While I do agree that blog posts should definitely be longer than 100 words (otherwise, why blog?? might as well go on Twitter or Tumblr lol), I do think that even personal posts about what you ate for breakfast or your favorite things can be good posts. It just depends on how you spin it. It just depends on the writing. YOu could also even flip it around and make it more about the reader. For example, if you write about what you ate for breakfast — then you could title it — 5 reasons why you should eat —- for breakfast — or 3 reasons why I start my day with coffee..lol It just depends on the approach.
Cheers,
Helen
crispyconfessions.com
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Great tips, thank you for posting them.
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Haha, I remember when I first started blogging, I think I posted like, 3 posts a day for a few days. ๐คฃ
I didn’t know that some people posted once a week and I thought that eVeRyOne posted like 10 times a day. ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
I guess I was just CRAZY excited to start blogging. ๐
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